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What kind of weddings do I officiate?
I work with any couple seeking a meaningful ceremony. You don't need to be religious, spiritual, or anything other than committed to each other. Whether you're planning an intimate elopement, a backyard gathering, or a formal celebration, I'm here to help you create a ceremony that feels authentically yours.
I specialize in ceremonies for couples who:
Want something personal, not cookie-cutter
Are spiritual but not religious
Are blending traditions or creating new ones
Want ritual and meaning without the dogma
How I approach wedding ceremonies
Your ceremony should reflect your story, your values, and your vision for your life together. I don't hand you a script and call it done. Instead, we work together to design a ceremony that feels true to who you are—whether that's simple and intimate, deeply ritualistic, or somewhere in between.
I help you craft vows that mean something. I weave in rituals that resonate. And on your wedding day, I show up calm, present, and fully committed to honoring this threshold moment in your lives.
Packages & pricing
I offer three tiers of service, depending on how much support and customization you're looking for:
Essential — $250
Simple & meaningful
Initial consultation call (30 min)
Pre-written ceremony template customized with your names and story
Day-of officiating
Legal paperwork filed
Best for: Elopements, intimate ceremonies, couples who want simple and heartfelt
Crafted — $500
Personalized ceremony design
1-2 planning meetings (in-person or virtual)
Fully customized ceremony script based on your story
Guidance on vow writing
Optional simple ritual element (handfasting, unity ceremony, etc.)
Rehearsal attendance
Day-of officiating
Legal paperwork filed
Best for: Couples who want their ceremony to reflect who they are
Sacred — $1,500
Full ceremony co-creation
3+ planning meetings to deeply design the ceremony together
Custom ceremony script with meaningful rituals woven throughout
Support crafting personalized vows
Multiple ritual elements designed specifically for you
Rehearsal attendance
Day-of officiating
Legal paperwork filed
Best for: Couples seeking a truly intentional, ritual-rich experience
All packages include travel within the Charlotte metro area. Travel expenses apply for weddings outside this area.
Why should I ask you to be my wedding officiant?
Marriage is sacred to me—not because of religion, but because I've witnessed its power to transform lives.
I've been married for 10 years. My parents have been married for 37 years. My paternal grandparents were married for 70 years. I've seen firsthand how commitment—real, chosen, day-after-day commitment—leads to profound growth and connection. I know what it means to be together through thick and thin, through seasons of joy and seasons that test you.
That's the reverence I bring to your ceremony. I don't take marriage lightly, and I don't believe your wedding should feel like a performance. It should feel like a threshold—a doorway you're walking through together into something bigger than yourselves.
Whether you're spiritual, secular, or somewhere in between, I'm here to help you honor the weight and beauty of what you're choosing.